You’re talking on the phone when your child walks in. “Where’s my math book?” she asks, without excusing herself. Experts say that too many of today’s children feel they have a right to interrupt adult conversations any time they feel like it.
That simple act gives kids the wrong message. Yes, their needs are important and they have a right to be seen and heard—but not whenever they want.
When your child interrupts you, don’t take the bait. Say, “I’m talking on the phone. I will help you when I’m finished.” Then go back to your phone call. If she interrupts again, ignore her or hold up your hand.
When you’re off the phone, be sure to listen to your child. Also take the opportunity to talk to her about being respectful by not interrupting.
Reprinted with permission from the April 2008 issue of Parents make the difference!® (Elementary School Edition) newsletter. Copyright © 2008 The Parent Institute®, a division of NIS, Inc. Source: Bob Condor, “Living Well: Years of Boosting Kids’ Self-Esteem May Have Backfired,” Seattle Post-Intelligencer, December 12, 2005, http://seattlepi.nwsource.com/health/251521_condor12.html?source=mypi.